I've been married a year and 10 mohnts.  Our biggest test has been overcoming the temptation to quit.  We are now leveling out and coming to a point where we are now considering each other.  During our first year and 1/2 we were trying to please each other by doing things that we thought you should do.  For example, I was dressed up with candle lights and lingirie waiting for my husband when he got home from work at 11pm.  I was very angry when I found that he wanted to go to sleep after I had made the sacrafice to wait up for him.  Now, I understand that he is truly tired, and we make compromises.  A wise person once said,  Seek to understand, and then to be understood.   This is a very helpful thing to do in a marraige.  Even when the other person does'nt understand you, and you sacrafice to understand them, they see your efforts and notice a difference in you   and will eventually come around and adopt your maturity.  Do what works for you all and not what others in other people's marraiges or what you think SHOULD work.
 
 You mean I don't have to pay for expert advice like this anmroye?!

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